First, here's a monkey from the British Museum of Natural History. More about him (or her) in a second, but I want you to keep this image in mind when I say that I am usually more monkey than saint in that I like to play and leave the responsible stuff to others.
Last February my friend Nikki had a stroke. A medical emergency like that is tragic, but it is doubly tragic when the victim is a young thirty-something with years of work and dreams and love ahead. Piles of friends came out to help Ms. Nikki. They packed up her apartment. They visited her in rehab (with pie) and last week they helped her move to a new apartment. Lots of people turned out to do anything and everything, because frankly, Nikki inspires friendship.
She certainly inspires it in me which is why I am her designated driver every morning at 7:30 as she resumes her teaching duties south of the city. Nikki is getting stronger every day, in fact she is the miracle girl of recovery, but she's not quite ready to drive and so there I am at her door every morning.
So, back the monkey, who is part of a whole series of stone arches of simians in the main hall. The way I see it? I may be more monkey than saint, but I'm not alone in the jungle. I'm lucky in that I've learned to share the bananas, but more than that, I'm grateful that Nikki is there to share them with me.
